Things that make you go Hmmmm
We need to restore sanity by awakening the human spirit. We can achieve this only if we undertake the most challenging and meaningful work of our leader lives: Creating Islands of Sanity.
An Island of Sanity is a gift of possibility and refuge created by people’s commitment to form healthy community to do meaningful work. It requires sane leaders... See more
An Island of Sanity is a gift of possibility and refuge created by people’s commitment to form healthy community to do meaningful work. It requires sane leaders... See more
Restoring Sanity – book page – Margaret J. Wheatley
Branding for healers might have a different meaning than branding for corporations.
Before big business talked of branding, animals were branded - marked by hot iron to note them as belonging to some farmer.
For healers, it might be that life brands you in some way.
Revealing your brand might mean revealing where you were hurt and marked by life, the terrain of hurt you know well enough to help others with.
It could be that life has branded you in a particular way, marking you as belonging to a certain life -path.
One of the truest things I know about niching is this: our deepest wound is often a doorway to our truest niche.
The places you've struggled in your life and overcome are often the best things you can help your clients with.
People struggle with their niche for years and then they look down and see how life has branded them and, like the tattoo artist might do with an ugly scar, they've made beauty out of and around it.
Isn't it true for your life?
You went through some ugliness and you've turned it into your gift for the world.
And so, for healers, branding might not be a creative act but a revelatory one.
It might be less about sitting down and trying to imagine what it might be and more about revealing to others what it already is.
The chances are that you were branded by life a long time ago.
And it took a long time to heal.
And then longer to adorn it and honour it.
Ah, but the revealing it?
That's often the hardest step.
And so I'll offer this one piece of advice:
Show them your scars, not your wounds.
Show them the places you've healed not the places you haven't.
Keep healing your wounds but keep those places where you're still tender and vulnerable to those you trust.
It might be that you don't need to go through a branding process but that you already have been.
It might be that you've become the person you needed when you were younger and who others, who are younger, need now.
I have a short YouTube video that goes into this idea further. If you'd like to learn more, comment the word 'BRANDING' below.
don’t surround yourself with smarter people. Surround yourself with differently free people.
Venkatesh Rao • Don’t Surround Yourself With Smarter People
My therapist can't save me from capitalism. But they can help me remember that my struggles are not personal failures—they're the predictable result of living in systems that prioritize profit over people.
Michell C. Clark • My therapist can't save me from capitalism, and yours can't save you, either
The framework below is specifically for navigating people you don’t trust, don’t feel comfortable with, or aren’t interested in who also happen to still be in your life. I call it the Spectrum of Contact.
(P.S. Here’s the video version if that’s your Jam)
The Spectrum of Contact
No Contact: No access. No exchange. No rent-free space in your head.
Em... See more
(P.S. Here’s the video version if that’s your Jam)
The Spectrum of Contact
No Contact: No access. No exchange. No rent-free space in your head.
Em... See more
How To Navigate People You Don't Trust
To be soft also means to be open to new encounters: to not have a fixed boundary, but a porous and negotiable one. The softness of the living is embodied in our capacity to form new relations across the thresholds of skin, cell membrane, and genetic heritage.
Laura Tripaldi • Article
The Hero's Journey (And Everyone Else's)
"There's only room for one hero in this story."
A self-assigned hero narrative is intoxicating because it reframes your flaws as virtues and your mistakes as necessary plot points. Every setback becomes character development. Every challenge becomes proof of your resilience. Every person who doubts you... See more
"There's only room for one hero in this story."
A self-assigned hero narrative is intoxicating because it reframes your flaws as virtues and your mistakes as necessary plot points. Every setback becomes character development. Every challenge becomes proof of your resilience. Every person who doubts you... See more