There’s this great video where Jacob Collier is playing at the O2 in London and he gets up and he starts playing Fix You by Coldplay. And then Chris Martin from Coldplay comes on stage and everyone freaks out. And then what happens is Chris Martin is kind of just playing live and rolling with Jacob Collier’s crazy creative mind. And Jacob’s up... See more
our Reverse Bucket List is an accounting of all the experiences that shaped "who we are" not because they were items on a "life plan" Bucket List but because their importance is only visible in looking back: we wouldn't be "who we are" now without these specific experiences.
In his famous 2005 Stanford Commencement Address, Steve Jobs described how we cannot understand the connective threads of our lives without looking back--a sort of "rear view mirror" Bucket List that only reveals itself by studying our own past.
Here is how Jobs summarized it: "You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them... See more
We can’t keep saying we want liberation while enforcing the same colonial rules that silence people.
I’ve lost count of how many times people have wondered if I am truly a nurse leader looking the way I look and if I really show up that way without hiding.
They wonder how I get away with... See more
I’ve been talking to so many Africans (young adults mostly) especially queer ones, who are wondering if they should cut off their parents.
Some should. Safety comes first.
But I think some of us skip an important step because it’s harder than disappearing: learning to... See more
Liberation doesn’t happen in a vacuum. It happens in relationship.
We love to say “abolish the police” but still throw each other away the second someone makes a mistake. We chant about mutual aid but secretly believe we’re a burden when we need help. We post about healing justice while ghosting the people closest to... See more
Rage isn’t a failure of regulation.It isn’t proof you’re broken. It’s proof you’re alive.
This culture rewards compliance and calls it calm. But for those of us navigating oppression, trauma, and erasure, calm has never been the full story.
Sometimes rage is what keeps our relationships... See more