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To me, the ideal life is to take the 20 percent of my time that make me feel most alive and see if I can cut everything else out until that fills everything. Then do that again, cutting the “worst” 80 percent of the best. This is the inverse of how many companies operate. There the ideal is often “growth,” which they take to mean “say yes to all
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Building collective organizations as 'mids' to hedge against randomness and create sustainable success beyond individual content creation
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Now, imagine the following situation. What if you formed an organization with 10 or maybe 100 other people, and here's how this works. You're going to cooperate together in that you're all going to brand yourselves collectively, like as if you were a band or a magazine or a sports club or something.
You're creating this thing, and that's the mid. A
... See moreWill we solve the crises of next hundred years? asked Krulwich. “Yes, if we are honest and smart,” said Wilson. “The real problem of humanity is the following: we have paleolithic emotions; medieval institutions; and god-like technology. And it is terrifically dangerous, and it is now approaching a point of crisis overall.” Until we understand... See more
No Author Listed • James Watson and Edward O. Wilson: An Intellectual Entente | Harvard Magazine
Know What You’re
Not
Available For
This one goes back to knowing your energetic needs. We’ve all done relationships the wrong way. What did you learn from that? Alchemizing relational trauma into lessons is a more fruitful use of your attention than ruminating on the past. Here are some self reflections to consider:
✍️ In what ways are my failed... See more
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This one goes back to knowing your energetic needs. We’ve all done relationships the wrong way. What did you learn from that? Alchemizing relational trauma into lessons is a more fruitful use of your attention than ruminating on the past. Here are some self reflections to consider:
✍️ In what ways are my failed... See more
Britnei Nicole • A New Type Of Conscious Relationship
1. Articulate Your Energetic Needs To Yourself
Did you know the heart produces the strongest electromagnetic field of any organ in the body? Your electromagnetic field can be detected several feet away from your meat and bones. Your energy is very real. That means tending to your energetic diet is JUST as important as eating food. I believe our... See more
Did you know the heart produces the strongest electromagnetic field of any organ in the body? Your electromagnetic field can be detected several feet away from your meat and bones. Your energy is very real. That means tending to your energetic diet is JUST as important as eating food. I believe our... See more
A New Type Of Conscious Relationship
I have a question. Why do we typically reserve the function of a “conscious” relationship for romantic shapes only?
A New Type Of Conscious Relationship
I found the words that name the sickening song that has been playing in my shadows. I call it “Self As Drug” . The song goes like this:
I am valuable when I help others feel better.
I am responsible for regulating the emotions of people I love.
If I say no, I will hurt people.
If I set a boundary, I am betraying them.
If someone is hurting, I am... See more
I am valuable when I help others feel better.
I am responsible for regulating the emotions of people I love.
If I say no, I will hurt people.
If I set a boundary, I am betraying them.
If someone is hurting, I am... See more
Recovering From The "Self-as-Drug" Mindset
The framework below is specifically for navigating people you don’t trust, don’t feel comfortable with, or aren’t interested in who also happen to still be in your life. I call it the Spectrum of Contact.
(P.S. Here’s the video version if that’s your Jam)
The Spectrum of Contact
No Contact: No access. No exchange. No rent-free space in your head.
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(P.S. Here’s the video version if that’s your Jam)
The Spectrum of Contact
No Contact: No access. No exchange. No rent-free space in your head.
Em... See more
How To Navigate People You Don't Trust
Here’s the truth no one tells you. Betrayal isn’t just interpersonal. It’s neurological.
It corrupts your internal compass. It warps your signal detection. And if you want to heal, you don’t need vague affirmations. You need precision tools.
These three questions are my tools now. And no one gets access to my inner life unless the answer to all... See more
It corrupts your internal compass. It warps your signal detection. And if you want to heal, you don’t need vague affirmations. You need precision tools.
These three questions are my tools now. And no one gets access to my inner life unless the answer to all... See more