they’ll say they want honesty but flinch when they get it.
they’ll beg for transparency then run back to the algorithm.
they’ll demand control but reward the illusion of it.
this isn’t contradiction. it’s humanity.
we are messy, layered, full of split desires & unspoken fears.
and every real product wrestles with th... See more
people think they want choices. but they prefer good defaults.
Personalized ads are one of those things where stated preference and observed preference are almost total opposites. No one thinks that they do, but people really enjoy being catered to.