Social

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: host dinner parties. people will love you. you will have many, many friends. you will get to watch disparate friend groups become one. your life will be enriched in ways that you cannot comprehend. host dinner parties.

Tyler Alterman

@TylerAlterman

On Finding Your People:

I’m told I have an unusual talent for finding wonderful people. Below is my strategy for having a rich social life in any large city

Disclaimer: This will require you acting in a way that is not normal. You may need to decide whether you want to be normal yet lonely or unusual yet connected

0. Treat ... See more

Ppl underestimate how proactive you need to be to make friends as an adult For most of human history, adult friendship was a side effect of contexts where repeated casual interaction was ensured: neighborhoods, church, associations, etc These contexts have largely disintegrated, but adults have not adapted. We’re still implicitly *waiting for fri... See more