When you feel like things are hard, your instinct might be to ask “why are things this hard?” Or to curse your luck — but a better question would be “why should things be easy?” Like why are you owed that when the natural state of things is difficulty.
Scott Alexander on how advice is usually given by defective people
3000 BCE: Imagine a hot shower...
1000: Wouldn't a hot shower be nice
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2000: Ah, nice hot showers for all... See more