sex eros & seduction

when i find someone sexy it takes me 0.5 seconds to find a way to tell them “thank u so much for existing as you are, what a gift it is to be alive at the same time as you and then get to witness it” and then trick them into being in my life in whatever way they’d like

the right-sized slap is sacred worship: if you spank someone too lightly, they get irritated. if you spank someone too hard, they shut down. if you spank someone just right, they open it provokes almost animal-like obedience and safety. and love. and RELIEF

what are the greenest flags you can think of?