Relationships

Some years back my wife and I got into the habit of asking each other ‘do you want comfort or solutions’ when the other was having a bad time. That one sentence can save us from an argument 9/10 times.

Alexander James twitter.com

sari

We need to talk about hierarchy

Brian Stout citizenstout.substack.com

dane cads

The natural size

Seth Godin seths.blog

aron

What People Are Really Doing When They Play Hard to Get

Luke Burgis read.lukeburgis.com

Sixian

Letter From Chris McCandless to Ron Franz

mjphillip.blogspot.com

Ashley Zhang

Looking for Alice

escapingflatland.substack.com escapingflatland.substack.com

sari

"The Anatomy of Trust"

Brene Brown jamesclear.com

Prashanth Narayan

Understanding Others' Emotions | Lisa Feldman Barrett

youtube.com

ssari

A fantastic insight by Lisa Feldman Barrett: When someone expresses anxiety, the first thing you should do is ask: do you want empathy or do you want a solution? Will 100% use this phrase going forward.

what is there when there is nothing

Winnie Lim winnielim.org

sari