Relationships

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Wanting to be enough for someone else is self-abandonment.

Joe Hudson • Tweet

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You tend to be resentful when your partner lacks in qualities that are your personal superpowers

Pranab • Tweet

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A note on companion

Embracing excellence means going beyond “the encouraged mediocrity of our society.” - Audre Lorde

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The All-or-Nothing Marriage — Eli J. Finkel

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I had my reasons, of course. As I say, she is crazy. I am, too, but in a very different way. The immense effort it took for me to spend a whole day with her and ensure that it was “perfect”—that I did nothing to offend, upset, or bother her—proved to me that we just didn’t work. And I thought: When a relationship does not work, each party has the

Agnes Callard • Breaking Points

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Reminds me of the the ‘In-Yun’ concept if it was applied inside of an existing relationship

My people are the whitepill people

The ones who try to find ways to support instead of tearing down

The ones who never make fun of others for the way they look or for their struggles

The ones who are kind to others (though sometimes they could be kinder to themselves)

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Breaking Points

Agnes Callard harpers.org

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