Relationships and Self

if everyone hates you it's time to sleep, if you hate everyone it's time to eat, and if you hate yourself it's time to shower !!

I don’t think people treat you how they feel about you. I believe people treat you depending on how they feel about themselves.

the ideal amount of delusion is non-zero

Nobody is obligated to do anything for you. But that’s the point of community and friendship. You do things out of love, out of necessity, and out of just selflessness.

the antidote to negativity is not positivity, its warmth

Sometimes your friends don’t consider themselves as close to you as you do to them

someone taking the time to explain how they are feeling hurt as a result of our actions means they value our presence in their life. they’re giving us a chance to show up in a way that is comfortable for both parties. when people stop explaining to us how they feel, they’ll exit.