Relationships and Self

Learning to Measure Time in Love and Loss (Published 2013)

Charisma is often just the absence of tension/rigidity in conversation

Bees don't waste their time explaining to flies that honey is better than shit

Love is making space for someone not just when it's convenient but especially when it's not

the ideal amount of delusion is non-zero

I don’t think people treat you how they feel about you. I believe people treat you depending on how they feel about themselves.

Unfortunately when you don’t burden ppl with your problems they think you don’t have any.

“Unspoken expectations are premeditated resentments.”

- Neil Strauss

"If we want the rewards of being loved we have to submit to the mortifying ordeal of being known"

Sometimes your friends don’t consider themselves as close to you as you do to them