relational connection & communication
The question in relationships is not just 'what is true' (an infinite number of things are true, more than we will ever have time to share), it's also 'how do I want to shape the shared reality we are creating together through the truths I choose to focus on & communicate.'
Heidi Priebex.comFlirting Mega Thread!!! ππ«¦πππβ¨πΉπΏπΈπ¦
Ms. G π (NYC sep 15 - oct 30)x.comI know that most people overrate the difficulty of hard conversations, and underrate how good it is to have them. Conflict avoidance slowly rots your whole life, and many people are about eight awkward discussions from a much-improved existence. In other words, go squash all of your beefs. This book is a decent start if you have no idea how to do... See more
Sasha Chapin β’ 50 Things I Know
Our Fighting Series is live!
With the launch of our YouTube Fighting Series, I also want to highlight the awesome thumbnails that @heynibras has been making for us.
Here's the first one for "Why Fighting Is Important" https://t.co/6IK7F93fAe
yep, we've been doing it at the end of our morning routine so we're usually already sitting down, outside & after meditation, then we just turn to face each other and take turns sharing what we're feeling* grateful for
*the key's been speaking only from feeling. meaning pausing and noticing what we feel truthfully... See more
nibras κ©x.comhonestly a really good social rule of thumb is to not interrupt people. to notice the urge to interrupt and just drop the impulse
regular interruption is such a social atmosphere pollutant
give people space to surprise and delight and they will
the only exception... See more
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Fighting Series
youtube.comKey components of an Upright Apology:
1. It focuses on your own behavior, not theirs
2. It acknowledge your actions without buying into blame or shame
3. The apology is about your personal growth, not about making others happy
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