read this when the mind is loud
When something bad happens, ask, “What’s great about this?” Instead of changing the world, just change your reactions.
Derek Sivers • How to Live: 27 conflicting answers and one weird conclusion
This is something i struggle to do but can do more of
"The secret of creative work is to make a lot and publish a little.
Don't underestimate the power of giving yourself permission to create junk. Most of what you create will be mediocre or bad.
But that's okay. You only have to show people the good stuff. Make 100 things, discard 90, and share the 10 best. Create, create, create. Edit, edit, edit
... See moreJames Clear • 3-2-1: On the Cost of Success, the Secret of Creative Work, and the Power of Walking
On a small level, it can be that little nervous moment, when you’re scared to talk to someone intimidating. You notice you’re scared. Aha! Whatever scares you, go do it. So you go talk to them. On a big level, it can be that huge terrifying idea that won’t go away. Starting a business. Visiting a country. Quitting your job. Whatever scares you, go
... See moreHell_Yeah_or_No • Sivers
Fear is a form of excitement. Go do it
Separate creation and release. When you’ve finished a work, wait a while before you release it to the world. By then, you’re on to something new. The public comments won’t affect you, since they will be about your past work.
Derek Sivers • How to Live: 27 conflicting answers and one weird conclusion
I love this. Pressure to post to a cadence is terrible advice
LessWrong • How to Be Happy - LessWrong
When friendship is settled, you must trust; before friendship is formed, you must pass judgment.
en.wikisource.org • Moral Letters to Lucilius/Letter 3 - Wikisource, the Free Online Library
I have to smile, thinking about what my former self would say. But the former self is not always right. We shouldn’t preserve our frst opinions as if they reflect our pure, untarnished, true nature. They’re often just the result of inexperience or a temporary phase. Old opinions shouldn’t defne who we are in the future.
Hell_Yeah_or_No • Sivers
Old opinions. Powerful