personality
Because if you don’t meet your own soul before you meet another person’s, you’ll build a home in theirs and forget you ever had your own. You’ll confuse being wanted with being known . And that, more than loneliness, is the thing that will hollow you out.
find your soul before your soulmate
Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.