non-coercion

if you're one of the people who has removed most "should"s from their life, you may reintroduce them once the central source of truth in your life is your own soul.

"should is one of the most violent words in the english language" https://t.co/1WZPwU2pqt

turns out if you let yourself want what you want*, everything is amazing (* instead of supposed-tos, shoulds, “if I were a good person, I’d…”s, rules, everybody else’s opinion, what’s ‘sane’, what’s ‘reasonable’, what you have worked out intellectually, etc.)