mutual composition

Some people appear confused about the bar for full awakening in the classical Buddhist sense. So, here's an uncontroversial minimal definition that cuts across traditions: Anuttarasamyaksaṃbodhi: anuttara - unsurpassed, there is nothing further samyak - complete sam - perfect, correct bodhi - awakening What does this actually mean? 1. The delusi... See more

“what is a woman’s erotic capital?” it’s her FEMININE RADIANCE -how good she feels to be around -the warmth of her heart -the depth of her love -her ability to hold you in her gaze & destroy & be tender w you all at once and HOW DEEPLY SHE EMBODIES POWER & SELF-POSSESSION

hot take: the biggest problem many men have, as it relates to their relationships with women, is that they take from women without realising that they’re taking a lagging indicator: you can't see or feel her radiance (and neither can she)

But the most crucial part of committing is *not needing other people to validate your schtick*. When you release others of the expectation that you need them to approve of you, when you say a little "fuck you, I'm having a good time" NOTHING you do will be cringe

- notice what qualities, behaviors etc. u admire about them - notice that u desire to have these qualities in ur life, that they are lacking and u yearn for them. - accept ur crush is at least partially projection of that desire onto them, a clue from ur subconscious about who u long to become - find creative, fun, safe ways to embody those qualit... See more

whenever I try to put together some kind of “master resource” it almost always ends up being overwrought and tedious when I write something like a personal recommendation doc for a friend, it almost always ends up being useful for other people and way easier to share too

My most powerful mental move is something I call “let it dance” and basically instead of looking for patterns or trying to control sensory input you just watch it like you would fireflies or ripples on a lake and then patterns emerge on their own. What’s the official name for it?

You could find a few definitions for the core of The Shaman archetype, but I would go with “One who tends to the wholeness of a folk."

interesting consequence of this is that adhd might just mean you have a body with more fragments of the computation in it, distributed across society. you are responsible for their integration. suggests the answer would involve an idiosyncratic path