mutual composition

My most powerful mental move is something I call “let it dance” and basically instead of looking for patterns or trying to control sensory input you just watch it like you would fireflies or ripples on a lake and then patterns emerge on their own. What’s the official name for it?

whenever I try to put together some kind of “master resource” it almost always ends up being overwrought and tedious when I write something like a personal recommendation doc for a friend, it almost always ends up being useful for other people and way easier to share too

- notice what qualities, behaviors etc. u admire about them - notice that u desire to have these qualities in ur life, that they are lacking and u yearn for them. - accept ur crush is at least partially projection of that desire onto them, a clue from ur subconscious about who u long to become - find... See more

“what is a woman’s erotic capital?” it’s her FEMININE RADIANCE -how good she feels to be around -the warmth of her heart -the depth of her love -her ability to hold you in her gaze & destroy & be tender w you all at... See more

experiencing this firsthand rn and it's very fucking cool

i usually describe this to people as "make your work people-shaped", which is the cognitively ergnomic way of talking about "cognitive ergnomics" (which is, tragically, not cognitively ergonomic)

there’s sth here flavored like “whatever can be destroyed by truth should be” any part of you that needs defense against being seen/felt should probably be looked at even closer

expanded version of these ideas https://t.co/ptEbqajnKq

something I love about the Microsolidarity Network is the regular pulse of people going out into the world to do “group stuff”, then coming back to share lessons we’re learning how to become the kind of person who can transform a group from okay to awesome ...thread time