lifestyle
What is worthwhile?
lifestyle
What is worthwhile?

Letting go is not in anybody’s program for happiness, and yet all mature spirituality, in one sense or another, is about letting go and unlearning. You can take that as an absolute. As German mystic-philosopher Meister Eckhart said, the spiritual life has much more to do with subtraction than it does with addition.
“The nature of life is change and the nature of people is to resist change.”
At the other side of the spectrum from boredom is addiction—not a disengagement but its dark reverse, a pathological degree of repetition or perseverance.
He’d once told me that the art of getting ahead in New York was based on learning how to express dissatisfaction in an interesting way.
To neglect any one of the three marriages is to impoverish them all, because they are not actually separate commitments but different expressions of the way each individual belongs to the world.