Ok so my mind is exploding and I need to share it: we're all confused because we think of love as romantic love (eros) instead of self-less love (agape). This is why you can't love yourself, and how you can:
I think the primary work of Jesus Christ was to show us a path of self-giving love that is bigger than our fears, bigger than our jealousies and resentments, and bigger than our worst thoughts and deeds. By love I mean neither neither a milquetoast “kindness” that elides the hard bits nor a graceless “tough-love” program for perfection.
Love is this deep knowing in my bones that I am because everything else is. Love is taking responsibility to allow all that is to fully unfold and express itself. “To fall in love outwardly”, because we can feel the unconditional love that the land gifts us if we allow our hearts to be open and fully receive.
the next stage of capitalism is love love your customer and your supplier love your investor and your lender and your creditor charge fair market price with heartfelt gratitude, pay fair market price with heartfelt gratitude love capitalism https://t.co/fpILvFa4AP
love already knows how to respond when it encounters suffering. When we stop interfering with this natural movement—when we cease trying to fix, manage, or improve what we find—our essential nature reveals its inherent wisdom.