Health - Mental
Maintenance and healing
Health - Mental
Maintenance and healing

Both the attachment figureâs presence and the good feelings that constitute the relationship become part of the clientâs psyche and structure. In a secure attachment, that person becomes part of your heart. (See âYour portable Good Mother")
If as a child you were unable to internalize a deep sense of love and security, you might now carry a persistent feeling of being not good enough â that you are somehow disgusting, ugly, stupid or flawed. This may involve internal thoughts such as, âNothing I do is good enoughâ, âThere is something fundamentally wrong with meâ, or even âI am bad
... See moreThe Loudest Alarm is Probably False
A curious thing I've noticed: among the friends whose inner monologues I get to hear, the most self-sacrificing ones are frequently worried they are being too selfish, the loudest ones are constantly afraid they are not being heard, the most introverted ones are regularly terrified that they're claiming more than
... See moreIf it takes less than 2 mins to do a task, do it. Removes the clutter off your mindâs âto-doâ list and gets you started.
We are wounded in relationship, and we need to heal in relationship.
