grief pool

“Without it life is empty and with it life is painful.. we are thus called to consistently choose between emptiness or pain”

“I met you when things were new and exciting and the possibilities of the world seemed endless. And they still are, for you and for me, but not for us.“
- Someone Great
“I understood her disbelief. People you love deeply become elemental. To hear they won’t be there anymore is like hearing the air or ocean won’t be. It feels like a fatal disruption to the universe.”
- Matt Haig, The Life Impossible

“But there was a comfort in the sadness. It is hard to explain and I don’t know if you feel the same about your mum, but I sometimes indulged my sadness. I headed towards it. Grief felt like the only way to keep close to them. So my mind headed to sad and bittersweet thoughts – even to a walk in the woods with them both thirty-six years ago, pickin
... See morei know what the people will say. they’ll tell me that i’m looking for him everywhere except my heart- the one place where he can always be found. And they will be correct.
