friendship & community

Im sorry about this but the best way to have friends is to make plans without scorekeeping about how often they return the favor People who don’t reach out to you are busy, not angry or lazy; if you want them and you remembered to call, call

eurydice x.com

On Finding Your People: I’m told I have an unusual talent for finding wonderful people. Below is my strategy for having a rich social life in any large city Disclaimer: This will require you acting in a way that is not normal. You may need to decide whether you want to be normal yet lonely or unusual yet... See more

Tyler Alterman x.com

Reflections on Microsolidarity

Julia Karmo juliakarmo.substack.com

u're not lonely bc u lack community, u're lonely bc u're not willing to work to maintain community community isn't an ambient vibe u passively absorb - it's the accumulated weight of showing up&caring for others, even when not totally feelin it ppl keep reversing the causality

orph x.com

Intentionally Making Close Friends — LessWrong

lesswrong.com

when it comes to feeling connected — feeling known — it doesn’t matter if you have a thousand followers, or once shared a smoothie with so-and-so microcelebrity, or founded a Web3 collective that we totally all agree is revolutionizing capitalism and not a scam or whatever. What matters is having 1-5 people who are really excited to spend time with... See more

brit • vibecamp 3 & me

modern friendship

substack.com

The Practice of Friendship - Tasshin

Tasshin tasshin.com