Desire
As a culture we tend to favor north-star thinking, delayed gratification, work-now-relax-later kind of stuff. But sometimes this can be a sneaky form of escapism—a way of living that never asks you to listen to the present instead.
Whether to have another kid (and other impossible decisions)
what it looks like to make a personal decision that may be in direct conflict with desire—even a deep, gut-level desire, which many of us have been trained to trust as a north star.
Whether to have another kid (and other impossible decisions)
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