choices
The Counterintuitive Approach to Finding Happiness: Do the Painful Things First
James Clearjamesclear.com
The health of a relationship depends on the amount of uncomfortable conversations people are willing to have.
Spend less time focusing on "discipline," and more time in things that genuinely pull you forward...
The person who requires internal force, will always get lapped by someone with genuine drive toward that thing.
Obsession beats discipline all day long.
Choosing Peace - The Mental Toughness Coach - Chris Dorris
christopherdorris.com
"You can choose peace in every moment of your life. We have been taught to believe that when we don’t get what we want, or things aren’t unfolding as we had thought they should, that’s bad and thus we should feel badly. This struggling against what is, this inability or unwillingness to love what is, is the source of all of our suffering and it is entirely our own creation. With practice, we can become as masterful at choosing peace as we have become at choosing anything else."
You don’t get to choose your epiphanies, aha moments, insights, realizations, revelations.
You don’t choose when, where, how, or why they happen.
Let that sink in…