boredom

Boredom is seen more as a void and a black hole in our lives instead of a blank canvas that can transform into something new and something creative. In a complete vacuum of distractions and outside noise, we are able to think in depth, create more freely, and form clear opinions of our own. Our attention spans are shrinking as we use the instant... See more

but boredom is also an intimacy skill. think about the people you’re closest to: can you sit with them in silence without scrambling to fill it? can you go on a walk together without checking your phones, letting conversation meander and stall? the best relationships — friendships, partnerships, even family ties — are the ones that can hold boredom... See more

I’m uncomfortable in moments where my attention is only partially demanded. These moments are typically the “in-between” times - the few minutes between life happenings. When I’m in the waiting room of a doctor’s office and need to have one ear exposed to hear my name called. When I’m waiting for an email or phone call. When my friend is running... See more

the thing about boredom is that it sneaks up in places where we used to expect it. car rides. long walks. the slow parts of a meal when no one’s talking. but now we’ve armored ourselves against it with screens, headphones, and endless micro-distractions. the second boredom shows its face, we swat it away. it makes sense: boredom feels... See more

Is doing this difficult? Yes. But do I absolutely dread what my life will be if I don’t learn how to be bored and learn how to think again? Absolutely. Boredom is agitating and even unnerving sometimes. What’s even more terrifying to me though, is the notion that I will one day self medicate myself with mind numbing media so much to the point where... See more