Books
Love to read~
Books
Love to read~
Passive boundaries, such as withdrawal, triangulation, pouting, affairs, and passive-aggressive behavior, are extremely destructive to a relationship.
Keep up your merry hearts, and ride to meet your fortune!’

But . . . if the Gospels were truly the pattern of God’s activity, then defeat was only the beginning. I would look around at the bare little cell and wonder what conceivable victory could come from a place like this.
Few situations in life are ever improved by not taking care of ourselves and not giving ourselves what we need.
A toxically shamed person is divided within himself and must create a false-self cover-up to hide his sense of being flawed and defective. You cannot offer yourself to another person if you do not know who you really are.
When the message we receive from another person is “You’re safe with me,” we relax.