Books

The one thing that doesn’t abide by majority rule is a person’s conscience.”

When the message we receive from another person is “You’re safe with me,” we relax.

Traumatized human beings recover in the context of relationships: with families, loved ones, AA meetings, veterans’ organizations, religious communities, or professional therapists.

This is the dominant motive of martyrs. They give to get love, and when they don’t get it, they feel abandoned.