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how to make friends in a new city: > say yes to everything for the first 3 months > ask locals what they like to do in the area - you can follow their recs for inspiration > when you vibe with someone, ask to hang. don't wait for them to initiate!! > try multiple communities &... See more

Remember people, don’t miss those small bids for connection that people throw your way! Ask the same questions back, be curious, be genuine, take note of someone leaving something open ended. They’re leaving room for you in their life. Occupy it!

If you ever find yourself as a houseguest for an extended period of time, here is the golden rule for success: invisible by day, charming by night.

People often mistake socializing regularly for community. If there's no commitment to care, there's no community, no matter how fun the socializing is.

Essential social skills: - Don't be a one-upper - Don't be an um, actually. - Don't steal anyone's thunder. - Do ask people about themselves.