added by sari · updated 2y ago
you have what you want
- Don’t live in with one foot in an imagined world, ungrateful for the life that you created. We flourish when we stop fantasizing about the unlived life and accept the one we’re in.
from you have what you want by Ava
sari added 3y ago
- We love to convince ourselves that things are circumstantial. But what if these things aren’t circumstantial? Instead of blaming the external world, imagine believing that some part of me wanted and chose this.
from you have what you want by Ava
sari added 3y ago
- And yet: we were born to give up what we love. To respect the sanctity of autonomy is to make your choice and let other people make theirs. The only way for us to consolidate our fractured selves—to become whole—is by fully inhabiting our choices.
from you have what you want by Ava
sari added 3y ago
- One thing I strongly believe is that you have what you want. Another way of phrasing it: you want what you choose. Even if, and sometimes especially if, what you choose is an impediment to your flourishing.
from you have what you want by Ava
sari added 3y ago