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To avoid having those conversations people “act out” their fantasies and sexual desires and even romantic desires with someone for whom it won’t matter if they are judged or criticized.
Joe Kort • Erotic Orientation: Helping Couples and Individuals Understand Their Sexual Lives
There is a trope in romance that when you meet the person you are supposed to be with, you can talk about anything. You can apparently inverse that too: if you talk about anything that pops into your mind, you can tell if you're supposed to be with the person by judging their reaction.
Henrik Karlsson • Looking for Alice
It is precisely when we hear little from our partner which frightens, shocks, or sickens us that we should begin to be concerned, for this may be the surest sign that we are being gently lied to or shielded from the other’s imagination, whether out of kindness or from a touching fear of losing our love. It may mean that we have, despite ourselves,
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