if you're dealing with insecurity or impostor syndrome I recommend not having a life narrative. you can just do your best at whatever task and connect with whomever seems to welcome connection if you're not worried how it fits into your life story
For some it manifests as imposter syndrome, the belief that there’s a basic level of expertise that pretty much everyone else has attained, but that you haven’t, and that you won’t be able to stop second-guessing yourself until you get there. It also arises, for many of us, in the feeling of not yet having cracked the code of intimate
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Hmm the quarter life crisis thinking is only fictional. It’s made up from your lack of self acceptance for where you are in life. The truth is, you don’t need anything else to be whole or happy. The judgment of your “lack” will always make you feel like you should strive for more. It’s all false, because you’re perfect right where your at. Still,... See more
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