Judging people for conformity shows your lack of compassion and gives it away that you were just like them not too long ago.
We're only really bothered by people who remind us of our recent selves. Just like teenagers can't stand kids and teenagers appear cringe to adults.
Judging people for conformity shows your lack of compassion and gives it away that you were just like them not too long ago. We're only really bothered by people who remind us of our recent selves. Just like teenagers can't stand kids and teenagers appear cringe to adults.
A person whose conditioning includes intense concern about a given subject—tidiness, punctuality, looks, money—is likely to project that other people make judgments based on the same degree of concern.
Cheri Huber • How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be
We see this, for example, in the unremitting demands for conformity of behavior in teenage gangs or cliques or in most radical political groups,