People often destroy their relationships over their whims. "He doesn't go rock climbing with me." "She doesn't do this specific thing when we're having sex." They start to obsess over this lack, mistaking a flight of fancy for a great and vacuous unfulfilled desire that if satisfied, will fix everything. What could have been summarily dismissed becomes a giant gaping hole that explains Everything That is Wrong With Our Relationship. But you can just let it go. It's okay. You mistook a craving for a need, a whining incessant thought for a god that needed to be obeyed. Just let it go. You will feel immense relief when you do.