most people never generate meaningful variance in their lives. they just orbit whatever local maxima they landed on by chance. but if you’re actually stuck, variance is the only way out. i’ve been thinking a lot about how to deliberately create that variance.
the problem is, real change often means burning everything t... See more
signüllx.commost people never generate meaningful variance in their lives. they just orbit whatever local maxima they landed on by chance. but if you’re actually stuck, variance is the only way out. i’ve been thinking a lot about how to deliberately create that variance. the problem is, real change often means burning everything to the ground, sliding back into the valley, & starting the climb again. it’s brutal, but sometimes there’s no other path.
We need a reverse atomic habits.
As @JamesClear wrote, "The ultimate form of intrinsic motivation is when a habit becomes part of your identity."
But what if you want to make your identity less about things that are now habitual.
I've talked to several people tha... See more
Paul Millerdx.com
Betting on yourself matters...because confidence is constructed.
You create virtuous cycles or destructive ones, by the smallest of actions - your hesitancy, or your willingness to take risks.
Here's how it works - from my chat with @ShaneAParrish
Construct Co... See more