“relationships are inherently a two-person game, so suddenly you’re subject to someone’s process—how they communicate, how they spend their time, who they like, what they value” https://t.co/rVCIOUaxdP
“relationships are inherently a two-person game, so suddenly you’re subject to someone’s process—how they communicate, how they spend their time, who they like, what they value” https://t.co/rVCIOUaxdP
How to marry in the information age:
Find someone whose epistemology you respect
Your views will change over time so finding someone whose meta-level thinking is compatible is more important than their exact views at a given snapshot of time
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Forget what they say—instead look at who they marry.
A person’s choice of a spouse—or if they aren’t married, their closest lifelong partner—is much more revealing than anything they say or do in public. This choice tells you about their own innermost longings, expectations, and needs. It tells you what they think of themselves, and what they think
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