my arc rn: letting go of the idea I need fixing, but also learning to recognize that sometimes under the voice that says "I need fixing" is a voice saying "I'm in pain and alone, come find me & love me". and responding to that voice feels so different than trying to fix myself
Malcolm Ocean wants to help your courtshipx.commy arc rn: letting go of the idea I need fixing, but also learning to recognize that sometimes under the voice that says "I need fixing" is a voice saying "I'm in pain and alone, come find me & love me". and responding to that voice feels so different than trying to fix myself
Often the ones that appear calm on the outside are whirling in chaos within.
Masking is often about seeking attachment over authenticity.
Aim True (Amy Pagett)x.comchronic self-criticism is a way to feel like you're "doing something" about the perceived problem, without actually taking any action
it's your subconscious finding the perfect compromise between the desire to stay stuck (and therefore safe) and the desire to move forward
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