
What happens in the days after you die? It will be horrible for your loved ones. I just learned about something you can do to make that easier for them: The Green Box Exercise. https://t.co/wQmpkJNafU

There are three deaths. The first is when the body ceases to function. The second is when the body is consigned to the grave. The third is that moment, sometime in the future, when your name is spoken for the last time.
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I hope you haven’t been to a lot of funerals, but it’s amazing what gets said to a lifeless body lying in a coffin. So many of us — afraid to feel uncomfortable or to look “weird” — wait until that loved one is gone to express our genuine appreciation for them.
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Before you are old attend as many funerals as you can bear and listen. Nobody talks about the departed’s achievements. The only thing people will remember is what kind of person you were while you were achieving.