you can pull yourself into existence by: being a good idea
i recommend constructing a detailed image of who you want to be and how you want your life to be, down to all the details (love-life, work, money, your home, day to day life, etc). flesh it out fully and let your heart and desires govern the whole thing, don’t hold back at all, create your ideal life. and everyday think about it - and feel it. feel... See more
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i don’t remember where i read it: life’s about creating yourself, not finding yourself.
related: personality changes over time. we are a shifting thing, not constant.