@zmfr15 search for “indecision and internalized authority figures”
The key here is to understand that such ties are only apparent. When you have trouble choosing between following your interests and making money, it's never because you have complete knowledge of yourself and of the types of work you're choosing between, and the options are perfectly balanced. When you can't decide which path to take, it's almost a... See more
paulgraham.com • When to Do What You Love
Do I have the energy and fortitude to go against my family or other people who might be upset with my decision? Am I truly making my own decision, or am I doing what other people want me to do?