シャア、何が一番最悪かって「お前はカスだ」と指摘されたら「そうだ、私はカスなんだ……」とカスな事しか出来ない自分に酔い始めてくとこなんだよな
Defining yourself by your suffering is an effective way to keep suffering forever
lesswrong.com • 100 Tips for a Better Life - LessWrong
do you focus only on your shortcomings, and why have you decided to not start liking yourself? It’s because you are overly afraid of being disliked by other people and getting hurt in your interpersonal relationships.
Fumitake Koga • The Courage To Be Disliked: How to free yourself, change your life and achieve real happiness
When a person has made a problem part of their identity, they'll hate you for offering a solution.
Ed Latimoretwitter.comDefining yourself by your suffering is an effective way to keep suffering forever (ex. incels, trauma).