The Approval Paradox The more you want someone's approval, the harder it is to get it. Approval seeking is a sign of insecurity and neediness, both unattractive traits. “When you're content to simply be yourself and not compare or compete, everyone will respect you.” —Lao Tzu

The Approval Paradox The more you want someone's approval, the harder it is to get it. Approval seeking is a sign of insecurity and neediness, both unattractive traits. “When you're content to simply be yourself and not compare or compete, everyone will respect you.” —Lao Tzu

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