Rainer Maria Rilke on the unlived life.
Many Theresas have been born who found for themselves no epic life wherein there was a constant unfolding of far-resonant action; perhaps only a life of mistakes, the offspring of a certain spiritual grandeur ill-matched with the meanness of opportunity; perhaps a tragic failure which found no sacred poet and sank unwept into oblivion.
Rosemary Ashton • Middlemarch

It is tragic how few people ever possess their souls before they die. Most people are other people. Their thoughts are some one else’s opinions, their lives a mimicry…”