Rainer Maria Rilke on the unlived life.
There is always what will turn out to be the life we led, and the life that accompanied it, the parallel life (or lives) that never actually happened, that we lived in our minds, the wished-for life (or lives): the risks untaken and the opportunities avoided or unprovided. We refer to them as our unloved lives because somewhere we believe that the
... See moreAdam Phillips • Missing Out: In Praise of the Unlived Life

if we can see the path ahead laid out for us, there is a good chance it is not our path; it is probably someone else’s we have substituted for our own. Our own path must be deciphered every step of the way.
David Whyte • The Heart Aroused: Poetry and the Preservation of the Soul in Corporate America

Do not search now for the answers which cannot be given you because you could not live them.