Worthy Woman

Every time I demonstrated that her needs were not as important to me as my own, she subconsciously had less interest in submitting to my leadership.

That doesn't mean a worthy woman is selfish and does nothing for her man. There is nothing wrong with a woman doing lots of nice things for man, she can and should. But only if he tells her to do those things. If she is doing things for her man through her submission to his devoted leadership, then she is showing her worth. But if she is doing it o

Such a woman needs to be able to communicate two things: The respect she has for herself, and the respect she has for her man.

A worthy submissive woman is incredibly attractive to a man. He feels compelled to devote to her because he can feel she is worth devoting to. He can also sense that if he is not devotional, she will not be submissive.

A woman communicates that she is worthy in five different ways too: She communicates that she deserves devoted leadership by only increasingly submitting to her man when her man is increasingly devoting his leadership to her. She communicates that she deserves to receive a man's gifts without having to 'do' anything to get them, by staying in the '

If he doesn't feel his gifts are valuable, then he will feel less valuable as a man. He will feel like he is unworthy to her, which makes him feel disrespected and even rejected. To avoid feeling that way, he will eventually stop giving to his woman. It's not because he doesn't love her or value her or respect her. It's because he doesn't feel love

This may be very difficult for a woman if her self-worth is based on what she can do for her man. She will feel addicted to being in the giving role, and will feel afraid to stop. She may start to feel anxious that she will lose her man, or that he will get angry at her.

My mind was completely unfocused on what she might need, because her silence communicated that what I was giving her was enough. Whenever we were together, I would only be focused on what I needed.

A woman will communicate that she is unworthy and doesn't respect herself when she takes on the 'giving' role and puts her man in the 'receiving' role. Such a woman might give her man gifts, backrubs, affection, sex, blowjobs, time, energy, love notes. She will plan and organize things for him, and take him places, with her money. She will be the o