because of all the nice things she does for him. He is attracted to her first and foremost because of how valuable he perceives her to be. He perceives her to be highly valuable when she perceives herself as highly valuable. He perceives her as of little worth when she perceives herself to be of little worth. And a woman who is in the giving role

A woman's submission to her man's leadership is a beautiful thing. It is natural and allows flow between a man and woman. Just like a tango dance, the man leads, the woman submits to his leadership.

When a woman expresses her needs, it communicates to her man that she is worthy. He will be much more likely to feel that her needs matters, because she believes they matter. It is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

The reason many women have difficulty showing appreciation for a man's gifts is often because of high expectations going unfulfilled or barely met. That was the issue with my wife. But

When a woman stays in the receiving role, she is demonstrating her worth. She is communicating that just 'being' is good enough, and she doesn't have to do anything extra to be valuable to her man.

It is absolutely true that there is much that men should do to step up and lead their relationships as better men. Men need to find their backbone, and their heart, and learn how to properly love and lead their woman. But that message doesn't empower women, it just leaves them waiting for men, or their man, to step up. They might be waiting a very

shouldn't be submitting to meet his. But first she should express how his lack of reciprocation and devotion are making her feel, as vulnerably as possible.

This may be very difficult for a woman if her self-worth is based on what she can do for her man. She will feel addicted to being in the giving role, and will feel afraid to stop. She may start to feel anxious that she will lose her man, or that he will get angry at her.

The more a woman connects to her heart and learns to feel and show that feeling, the more she will be able to show the appreciation for her man on her face, her body, and in her energy. It's not just the words. What really matters is the energy.