It’s a skill. It can be learned. Some women got taught the skill of loving themselves by their mothers, and so that love feels effortless. Most of us got skilled in the art of criticism and judgement - which are like the anti-skills to self-love. It’s like being good at drinking alcohol and trying to be an Olympic athlete: one skill seriously impai

If someone doesn’t like you, or a man rejects you, it might still hurt, but you don’t have to question everything that you are.

She is radiant, sparkly and magnetic. She takes pleasure in the eternal world because it delights her. Not because she desperately needs to fill a hole. Life looks and feels a whole hell of a lot better from that place.

How does all this relate to being a Wild Woman in bed? A woman who represses herself isn’t much fun in bed. If you’re always trying to please your partner, or sticking to a single script like “the good girl” or “the rebellious pornstar” it isn’t going to matter how good it is at first - it’s going to get boring.