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Why Having a Wedding Makes Sense
She has seen so many of her own wedding photos, and she has looked happy in all of them, but the weddings themselves have been so different. She has seen herself in a dress, in a white jumpsuit, in a sari, in a sundress, in a church, in a bandstand, in a community centre. She has seen formal cutlery on tables in a hotel, a huge buffet with stacked
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The success was due to matching people who were serious about getting married. Both the considerable length of the required questionnaire and the questions on it select for people who are serious about marriage rather than just dating. That’s a useful insight for anyone looking to marry. If you’re eager to get married, try to date people who are se
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