
Urban Tantra, Second Edition: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century

The preference we use when we process information is likely to be our sensual preference as well. Knowing which sense you prefer makes giving yourself pleasure more intense and rewarding.
Barbara Carrellas • Urban Tantra, Second Edition: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
And if being stroked slowly and seductively does it for you, you are most likely kinesthetic.
Barbara Carrellas • Urban Tantra, Second Edition: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
The seventh chakra is the door to the Collective Unconscious, and when it is open, it is your connection with All That Is.
Barbara Carrellas • Urban Tantra, Second Edition: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
But as a culture, we consume far too much of this faux ecstasy.
Barbara Carrellas • Urban Tantra, Second Edition: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
timelessness. You transcend time completely. There is no time. You forget time completely; time ceases for you.
Barbara Carrellas • Urban Tantra, Second Edition: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
Practice open-eyed orgasms. Masturbate while looking into a mirror and look into your own eyes as you orgasm. As you come, tell yourself how beautiful you are and how much you love yourself. THE
Barbara Carrellas • Urban Tantra, Second Edition: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
Rituals simply focus energy.
Barbara Carrellas • Urban Tantra, Second Edition: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
The Tantric belief that to experience sexual excitement is a taste of divine energy is a profound and revolutionary thought, as relevant today as it was in the past.
Barbara Carrellas • Urban Tantra, Second Edition: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
When we don’t trust that we are strong enough or good enough to get what we want, we resort to manipulating behavior as defense. We may settle for less than we deserve in sexual relationships. We may feel afraid of the strong emotions that accompany sex. The