Those hot-girl self-help videos are making you worse
To be clear: I don’t think watching these “hot-girl self-help” videos is inherently bad (though there’s definitely some that are worse than others). There’s nothing wrong with wanting to feel occasionally inspired or confident, but it can become an issue when this becomes your only framework for self-understanding. When you start to see the world... See more
Sabine Carys • Those hot-girl self-help videos are making you worse
yess, it’s not that you shouldn’t consume this content but it’s that you should do so mindfully and critically, because there is good advice and there is also harmful advice, learn to tell them apart
One video I watched was titled: “ How to Be His Dream Girl Forever (Even After Marriage & Kids) .” In it, the creator says, “Men are simple creatures...the feminine invites and creates vacuums in space for the masculine to step in.” She adds that “men under stress disconnect to regulate themselves...It’s not rejection. It’s his biology. It’s how he... See more
Those hot-girl self-help videos are making you worse
this is also why this kind of self help content is so inherently heterosexual, it can often focus on propagar gender roles within romantic connections that is first of all, a construct even in het relashionships and even more useless and censeless when it comes to queer relashionships