The WEIRDest People in the World: How the West Became Psychologically Peculiar and Particularly Prosperous
Joseph Henrichamazon.com
The WEIRDest People in the World: How the West Became Psychologically Peculiar and Particularly Prosperous
Guilt is different; it’s an internal guidance system and at least partially a product of culture, though it probably integrates some
Emotionally, those experiencing shame want to shrink away and disappear from public view.
The public nature of the failure is crucial: if there’s no public knowledge, there’s no shame, although people may experience fear that their secret will get out.
innate psychological components like regret. The feeling of guilt emerges when one measures their own actions and feelings against a purely personal standard.
Overall, being consistent across relationships—“being yourself”—pays off more in America, both socially and emotionally.15
Such evidence suggests that the immense importance assigned by the discipline of psychology to notions of self-esteem and positive self-views is probably a WEIRD phenomenon.
WEIRD people suffer more severely from Cognitive Dissonance and do a range of mental gymnastics to relieve their discomfort.
in the few non-WEIRD societies where it has been studied, having high self-esteem and a positive view of oneself are not strongly linked to either life satisfaction or subjective well-being. In many societies, it’s other-esteem (“face”) that matters, not self-esteem rooted in the successful cultivation of a set of unique personal attributes that ca
... See moreShame is rooted in a genetically evolved psychological package that is associated with social devaluation in the eyes of others. Individuals experience shame when they violate social norms