You want someone whose words resonate with you deeply. Who you trust and feel comfortable with, because, week after week, you’ll be spilling your guts out onto a table like puzzle pieces to be sorted through and reassembled.

we had tapped into the creative consciousness. I have always viewed ideas as energy, floating in and out of our minds and in the air around us. Whether or not we choose to harness that energy is what differentiates us.

When Laurel asked me questions she looked into my eyes with such attentiveness and genuine curiosity that for the first time in my life, I felt seen. For a girl who had felt incredibly misunderstood by the one most important female figure in her life, this was the gift I needed to set me on my path.

There’s a real beauty, and freedom, in acceptance.

You’re probably used to seeing creative types depicted as successful or suffering, one or the other. My story is both.

When your intuition guides you to do something, don’t wonder why. Just do it and eventually you’ll find out.

Just because you find a career that you love doesn’t mean you are tethered to it for life,

My signature move was to pack up all my opinions, feelings, likes, and dislikes, and set them aside so I could absorb the lifestyle, interests, and friends of whoever I was dating. If I remain compliant, sweet, easy, and suggestible, then you’ll really love me, right?

The concept of having a job that paid the bills and then pursuing your interests on nights and weekends seemed completely absurd to me.