
The Trauma of Everyday Life

The infinitely poignant beauty of creation is inseparable from its diabolic destructiveness.
Mark Epstein • The Trauma of Everyday Life
In so doing, the Buddha’s mother acted out an inadequacy that many a mother—like many a lover—is vulnerable to, an inadequacy fed by thoughts of doubt and fear that erode confidence and corrode connection.
Mark Epstein • The Trauma of Everyday Life
“There is no self apart from the world.”
Mark Epstein • The Trauma of Everyday Life
“the unbearable embeddedness of
Mark Epstein • The Trauma of Everyday Life
Clinical studies of such children reveal that a preponderance of them have parents who have related to them in either a helpless and fearful way or a hostile and self-referential one. The children of helpless and fearful parents, in particular, have a very difficult time later in life. Their parents tend to be sweet and fragile, not hostile or
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“The core of the dream is not the manifest content but the emotional experience.”
Mark Epstein • The Trauma of Everyday Life
“In a blindfold world I go to beat the Deathless
Mark Epstein • The Trauma of Everyday Life
“Body exposed in the golden
Mark Epstein • The Trauma of Everyday Life
The effort required to ward off the possibility of trauma—the rush to normal that the absolutisms of daily life encourages—is itself traumatic.