“What I am about to say may at first sound depressing and even cynical, but I think you will not find it so in practice. There are three things I would have you bear in mind. The first is that as you now behold one another, you are probably seeing each other at your best. All things disintegrate in time, and as the years go by you will tend to get

Marriage is the vow we make that, through hardship and doubt, keeps us bound to one another; so too must we create a tethering to our own creativity. This commitment ensures that in times of doubt and inadequacy, we keep returning to it to deepen our craft.