
The Third Perspective

“What we don’t know about ourselves can and will hurt us, not to mention others,”
Suzanne Stabile • The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery
Because of this profound capacity to understand others, it’s hard for them to take a position or hold an opinion, especially if it’s contrary to that of their partner or community.
Christopher L. Heuertz • The Sacred Enneagram: Finding Your Unique Path to Spiritual Growth
However, I quickly remind myself that I am probably perceiving it from the perspective of an angsty teenager who does not know better. How would a loving parent (the Universe) perceive the same situation?
Richard Dotts • Dissolve the Problem
In acceptance, we have let go of the inner guilt-monger that found fault with even our most basic human drives. We can enjoy our physicality without moralistic aversion or compulsive self-gratification. We accept that others have come to their understanding of life and their ethical views in a way that makes sense to them, even if their beliefs and
... See moreDavid R. Hawkins • Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender
experience. And, paradoxically, the acceptance of one’s negative experience is itself a positive experience.
Mark Manson • The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life (Mark Manson Collection Book 1)
we see that good and bad are only points of view from a perspective that cannot be aware of everything.