The Strength of Being Misunderstood

The most impressive people I know care a lot about what people think, even people whose opinions they really shouldn’t value (a surprising numbers of them do something like keeping a folder of screenshots of tweets from haters). But what makes them unusual is that they generally care about other people’s opinions on a very long time horizon—as long... See more

You should trade being short-term low-status for being long-term high-status, which most people seem unwilling to do.